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Man it is so wild that I read this thread tonight. I normally only logon to look at the titty board, but since it is gone I decided to look around a bit. I to am from Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. I have just gone through an extremely simuliar situation. I have been married for two years and have two children with my wife. She has done many of the things your wife is doing. I just filed for divorce last Friday, my wife signed a deal I offered her just today. I put myself through alot of unnessacery pain trying to make our relationship work and bring her back home ,counseling, church, quit drinking, the works . My advice to you: [B]File for divorce Immediatly![B] The sooner you decide this is not going to work the better you will feel every day. Get your children! If she decides she wants to divorce you and speaks to a lawyer, he will tell her to get physical custody of them and do not let you regain it. There is nothing you can do about this until you can get into court, and she will have an advantage over you. She is cheating on you! I am sorry to tell you this, but it is true. It is over the quicker you move the more chance you have to keep your children safe. She will get tired of this lifestyle and either try to screw you or crawl back home, either way you lose. You have a good chance of getting custody at this point, but that can change in an instant. And if she crawls back home and you take her, she will never respect you, and she will do it all again, maybe in three weeks, maybe in three years, she will feel as if you will always be there to take care of the kids and to take her back no matter what she does, just a fallback for when her "friends" are no longer there for her. PM me if you want I will be happy to tlk to you and support you. I can also give you the number to a very good Lawyer.
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