Add me to the list. We have a baby and we both work fulltime, so we have to make time for sex. Its usually been 3-4 days since the last time so I'm ready to blow anyway, and my wife really gets into it with scratching and hair pulling and screaming...
What I usually do is get her off before I actually enter her, then that first time is usually pretty short. Recover for 10-20 minutes then go again. Now for me the 2nd time is never as good as the 1st, and I sometimes have trouble cummimg again BUT I can last a long time and when she yells "fuck me harder" I can actually do it without blowing. She almost always cums, sometimes more than once, which makes it worth it even if I don't have another one.