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Old 10-07-2004, 07:13 AM   #9 (permalink)
starbum
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Im heavily attracted to good kissers. I personally love a little tounge, little nibbling, pretty much a little of everything. Not to much of anything and not only one technique. One thing I dont believe has been metioned is to suck the lower lip into your mouth (gently!) and then running your tounge along the lip. It feels fantastic.

I hate it when people try to kiss you like they're going to eat you alive. SOFT AND GENTLE! I've kissed some girls who feel like its their goal to get their head as close to the back of your throat as possible. Sure, a rough kiss can be fun...but I personally adore the soft, gentle, sensual kisses.

1. Take your time. Start with a small peck on the cheek. Run your lips over hers (or his) softly, without kissing. It feels great. Call it the foreplay before the kiss. Run your fingers softly around the edge of her ears. Slowly pull her closer to you.
2. Start slowly. Dont immediatly go into a deep kiss.... build it up! Kiss with passion...not lust. Those are the best kisses.
3. Try different things while kissing. Dont conentrate on one technique over and over, it can get old. Alternate things, and dont do techniques so close together. When you switch to tounge, suck, nibble, tounge, suck, nibble over and over...that can get old. Remember, keep things interesting! Try something new that comes to mind.
4. If your parther doesnt appreciate something, dont do it. Dont feel bad about it either, that can kill the mood. So you bit a bit too hard? Kiss the lip gently and be soft on her/him for awhile, make up for it.
5. Open your mouth once the kiss starts to get hot and heavy. Just remember...open your mouth, but dont try to eat the other person. And watch the teeth! Haha
6. Above all...enjoy a kiss. Dont feel obligated to one.

This sounds dorky, but try to practice a little. If you dont have a close friend (or fb) to try things on, a hand will suffice. You can really impove how you move your lips by feeling them as you do it. If you dont feel comfortable doing either, you can be really adventurous and ask couple to kiss infront of you. Watch how they do it, but dont critique them (that'll kill the mood), you can suggest but dont make them feel bad or that they're doing things wrong. If someone isnt doing it right, you can learn from it!

I personally have been in a kissing session (thats all we did, haha) from 11PM to 4AM without any stops or breaks. After that both our jaws hurt a little from being open so much...haha.

Enjoy the smooching! Depending on the person, I feel it can be just as good as sex.
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