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I have the exact same problem, 37 years old, used to take ages, now sometimes i can cum as quick as 1 minute, sometimes about 3 minutes. Not sure what the hell is going on.......all I know is it pisses my wife off and she blames me, making me feel inadequate. It all started after the birth of my second son, maybe because she was delicate afterwards that has a sub concious contributing factor.
Anyway, I babble on, I tried the masturbate for a time until you feel like cumming, stop, rest, continue, over and over again........didn't work (had to be done on my own, because by this time the wife didn't feeel it was her duty to help)
I tried the excercises with the muscles down there......again didn't work
Finally i bought some Durex Performa condoms, the first time we made love with them it got to the point where I thought I wouldn't cum. I think we lasted over 15 minutes......that's not to say it lasts this long every time, but usually between 6 and 15 minutes.
Hope this helps.
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