i don't face this problem often but i do know what you're talking about. sometimes, i simply can't last that long! my solution? think of a number between 2 and 9, inclusive (i usually use 8) and start doubling (i.e. 8, 16, 24, 32, etc.)
the caveat is that you have to start counting as soon as you recognize that you're not going to last that long. it works for me because conscious distraction from the concept of orgasm translates into physical distraction from orgasm. i think...
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