Try not to think of it as losing your virginity. That makes it sound worthless. Think of it as an act of giving, or sharing. See if you're still so desparate to give it away. Sex is something that is best when shared with a person you love. Because it means that the person won't leave (or kick you out) when the hour is up, and it means that there's a whole person there to spend time with you afterward. Its an emotional deal, believe it or not. I couldn't imagine not having my SO there to hold me afterward.
So you're horney. You're 18, deal with it. Spend some time on yourself for now, that's more important. If something is bugging you, work on it. If you don't like who you are, you have the power to reinvent yourself, head to toe, inside and out. This is an amazing time in your life. Look around every now and then. Could be that some girl is just waiting for you to look her in the eye. Be someone you like. That's what will be attractive.
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17 seconds is all you really need
- Smashing Pumpkins
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