This may have already been mentioned (I didn't have time to look at ALL the posts) but what is extremely less painful for me is if we have anal sex while in the spooning position. We have tried it other ways as well (like doggiestyle or me on top like you might see in porns) but trust me, on the side in a spoon is fantastic and practically painless. Oh yea, and LOTS of lube...astroglide is the best if you use lots of it. I've never had a problem with it getting sticky or drying up too soon and it washes off easily enough.
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