Had a F**k buddy. This girl and I had been friends for about a year. We were at a bar one night and she was telling me how hard it was to find someone to just hangout with. She said that she wasn't necessarliy looking for a relationship but really looking for someone to fool around with or have sex. Well, I had a few drinks so I offered my services. We had a verbal agreement that there would be no attachement because I was moving in a couple months. Mistake. She got attached. After I moved she asked me if we could continue some sort of relationship. Which I didn't really know if she was thinking on moving with me or not. Either way, I refused. I felt really bad about it, but we had a deal, I didn't let myself get attached. She understood. But there is no way I could ever do this again, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. We're still friends and talk often but I still feel kind of weird about the whole situation. Bottom line: I do not claim to understand women. But, at 28 yrs old, the only thing I do know is that men are much less emotional.
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