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I can't understand all of you who think this is okay...it's verging on rape. It might be that you have had sex with "her" "him" several thousands of times, but I know for me that if I woke up and my boyfriend was effectively fucking me while I was still asleep I'd feel totally disregarded and disrespected, like I was not considered in this decision, that my wishes (to sleep, or to choose to fuck, whatever) are completely unimportant when he just needs a fuck. What am I, a piece of meat? I don't mind being woken up by a bit of sexual play and then leading on to some good sex, but to wake up with the full on sexual act going on would scare the shit out of me! Is it different to rape because what, he's my boyfriend? No no, this would not, most definitely not be okay with me. I don't consent to sex anytime anywhere just because he's my boyfriend...I still have a choice.
By the way, I'm not condemning all of you who enjoy it. Just wanted to give my point of view, in fact, I really had to.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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