Well if u take into account stereotypes, asian men are usually smaller or skinnier, while african american women are generally strong and curvacious. Its easy to see how a guy could feel emasculated if his girlfriend could use him as a back scratcher.
On the other hand i think asian women and african american guys are attracted because the guys are typically tall and strong while the girls are more petite, fitting the sterotypical male-female relationship.
Take it further and u could say that rumours about penis size (for both asians and blacks) would be intimidating to an asian dude. Imagine you wanna ask a girl out thats been with giant guys her whole life, from a girls point of view it would be like asking out a guy who's always been with really good looking girls- a bit intimidating
The only other reason I can think of is that most asian guys (based only on the ones i know personally btw) are shyier because theyve been brought up in a conservative household, while black women are usually pretty outspoken.
All this is based on stereotypes and generalisations about race, though..
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