I was 21 when I lost mine had had chances before then but had tried to wait till marriage.
What I did was I went and rented 2 suites and got some booze and had a party (with some of my birthday money). I had a couple friends who helped me with the finances so I didn't go totally broke.
I then invited some close friends and this girl I really liked and we flirted a lot but I was scared to ask her out on a date (very low self esteem and felt asking a girl out and getting turned down was a bad thing IT ISN'T).
The party was spectacular, the girl I liked asked if she could crash in one of the rooms, I said sure. Everyone left except her by 3AM. I took the bed next to her and laid down to sleep in just my undies. Next thing I knew she was in bed with me and things happened. We ended up dating for a few months and the sex was great.
Moral of the story is, just because you are scared and unsure doesn't mean there isn't a lady (or guy) paying attention to you. Just set up an environment where the 2 of you can do something with friends and see what happens.
As for the hooker or rubber vagina..... never get a hooker she's too expensive and you never know what she may give you.
The sex toy? It works for awhile. I forget what I had it had a vibrator in it and was ribbed and tight, but it was hard to clean and wore out fast.
You'll be fine, just don't worry about age and let nature and attraction take it's time. Trust me sex is far far far better when it is with someone you care about and someone who cares about you.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?"
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