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Originally Posted by CityOfAngels
Some things you must remember:
1) Women love assholes.
2) Don't focus all of your attention on one woman who doesn't even have interest in you.
3) She's your friend. Be happy for her.
4) There's always more than meets the eye for every person, and it's apparent that she sees that in him.
5) Quit being so insecure. Just because you never asked her out doesn't mean you never had a chance with her.
6) Go out and bang someone hotter than she is. It'll really make you feel better.
P.S. Being fat doesn't always equal to no game. I'm a bit chunky, and I was able to bang the girl of my dreams from high school, AND I have her best friend on my jock. Albeit I'm not Kingpin-sized, I am 230+ lbs and only 6'2".
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I am pretty sure she never really liked me romantically, she just liked the attention I think, so she flirted with me enough so I kept giving her attention I suppose.
I dont know about being insecure.. I am a little... I have noticed how in other people's lives - they always seem to see situations as if they are right, as if they were wronged (Im sure a lot of times they are, and were)... for me I hardly ever feel that way. I think I am overly self aware of my weaknesses and contradictions, in any situation, I always pretty much feel its probably my fault somehow - maybe most people do, and just pretend they dont, I dont know.
And being overweight doesnt mean no one would like me, I know that... but - the simple fact it is an issue to a lot of people. Obviosuly it is to some degree something I control... I just cant seem to get motivated to get fit again. She was - and Im not just saying so cos I liked her - a very attractive girl, so I guess it stands to reason she would want to be with someone attractive too, if she has the choice... I mean, in not wanting to be with someone like me, I can see her point, and understand entirely why she would feel that way. I dont think Im a bad guy, and I have a lot of things going for me, but I have a lot that isnt too... I've been pretty depressed for the longest time, Im not attractive, I'm too self involved, too full of doubts and uncertaintity, I dont have much motivation, I live like a slob to be honest... so Im not going on like "oh, why would she choose this guy over me..." I just think she could do better - it seems like good girls always end with pricks who just act confident. And it seems true to me, nice guys always finish last... but I'm sure I'll find somebody one day, and we'll be very happy ever after.