Do you have a digi-cam? Post a picture of yourself and well help you out, but honestly looks only counts for like %10 with girls. Most girls I know would rather have an ugly guy that they had fun with than a hunk who is a jerk/uninteresting. Look at me, I didn't have a real girlfriend until I was 19, I thought I was ugly too. One day I just woke up and said "the hell with what anyone thinks of me" and really stuck to it. I started to talking to any girl I thought I would like, even the hottest girls at work or school. I won't lie I got turned down A LOT, but who cares. It didn't take long before I found the love of my life, she is beautifull (way out of my league but she slaps me when I say that) she loves playing video games and going to movies and stuff with me and my friends, and I've been with her for about 2 years now. We are best friends as well as lovers, and I haven't been happier in my life. My advice to you is to take care of yourself, get some self confidence, and suck it up and ask some girls out. Don't be nervouse cus if it doesn't go well its not a big deal. In fact, if you sense it is not going well, just say you've had a great time and that you would like to be her "friend" and hang out "sometime", save some face. DO NOT, and I cannot stress this enough, DO NOT hire a prostitue, you will regret it the rest of your life. I was a virgin till I was 20 and Ill tell that to anyone. Try to realize that what people think of you doesn't matter. I know its hard in highschool, but after you get out you will see that "popularity" doesn't even exist anymore, and you will wonder why you stayed up so many nights worrying about it. Be yourself and the hell with anyone that doesn't like you.
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