I never used to be able to orgasm either. I found, and I'm sure you've heard it before, if I just concentrate on what he's doing and how it feels, I can have many mind blowing orgasms in one sitting for lack of a better term. My best advice is to not think about it. Focusing on it makes it not happen. The guy I am with now can cause unbelieveable orgasms, but also has the habit of killing them before they happen when he asks if I am going to cum before I acutally have. As soon as I focus on whether I am close or not, it's not going to happen, even if I am right there.
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