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hellasnow · 09-30-2004, 10:19 AM

damn hit return

anyway thanks for the replies

i never said that they went out while we were apart. interesting how that came into play. might have been how i worded it.

we've talked it over quite extensive since i posted this and haven't had time to come back and post.

she's told me if it bothers me this much that she would not go. it's basically my choice. problem is i do trust her otherwise i would not have married her. i don't trust him he is the problem in my mind. yes she is willing to go but i truly believe that she will not go if i don't want her to. this is where it becomes my problem: jealousy or insecurity. but my gut says more and thats why i've posted, my gut says no.

true if she's going to cheat she'd do it anywhere, again her i'm not worried about.

anyway thanks for the feedback and even the face slaps. i'm not to much of the controling type i love my wife very much and want her to be 100% happy. i'm just trying to explain to her how guys can be even if they've seemed like angles for years, gut says he'll take a try at her.

it is easy to see who has been burned by a situation like this and who has not and who has gone with it and everything work out fine....food for thought

09-30-2004, 10:19 AM	#43 (permalink)
hellasnow Insane	damn hit return anyway thanks for the replies i never said that they went out while we were apart. interesting how that came into play. might have been how i worded it. we've talked it over quite extensive since i posted this and haven't had time to come back and post. she's told me if it bothers me this much that she would not go. it's basically my choice. problem is i do trust her otherwise i would not have married her. i don't trust him he is the problem in my mind. yes she is willing to go but i truly believe that she will not go if i don't want her to. this is where it becomes my problem: jealousy or insecurity. but my gut says more and thats why i've posted, my gut says no. true if she's going to cheat she'd do it anywhere, again her i'm not worried about. anyway thanks for the feedback and even the face slaps. i'm not to much of the controling type i love my wife very much and want her to be 100% happy. i'm just trying to explain to her how guys can be even if they've seemed like angles for years, gut says he'll take a try at her. it is easy to see who has been burned by a situation like this and who has not and who has gone with it and everything work out fine....food for thought __________________ "when life looks like easy street..... theres danger at your door." (JG)