Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I would never go to visit a male friend of mine if my husband couldn't come. Likewise, he would never visit a female friend without me. It's just a respect thing. I am committed to xepherys, and I would be disrespecting him by running off to be with another man, even if my relationship with that man wasn't sexual in any way. Xeph and I are completely monogamous and trust each other completely, but there are just some things you don't do when you're married.
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