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UPDATE
She talked with my sister the other day. My sister went through almost exactly the same thing and she ended up getting a divorce 11 years into it. Anyway my sister said they had a good talk and that she cried alot. (my wife) (both are named jessica by the way) So when she came home that day it sounded like she was going to put off the moving out. Then last night we were talking on the phone and she asked me how I felt about her moving out on monday. I told her I thought she was making a mistake and she blamed me for trying to manipulate her and change her mind about moving out. Which is stupid, of course I don't want her to leave, but she has to make up her mind what she wants to do, I was just giving my opinion.
So now it looks as if monday she starts the move. The good thing about all this is that she is going to move into her sister's ONE bedroom apartment and is going to have the TWO kids 3-4 days a week. It will drive her nuts in a couple of weeks I am sure.
As for my job, well she is willing to work around it. so thats good.
I will tell ya how things go after monday I guess.
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