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Old 09-29-2004, 05:26 PM   #6 (permalink)
Rlyss
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I had a girlfriend once who said she was bisexual and it did scare me, not because I'm homophobic, but because I got worried that I couldn't satisfy her. I spoke to another bisexual friend of mine (seems all the rage these days) and she helped me, made me realize that being bisexual doesn't mean she needs two genders to satisfy her, it means that if she wants satisfaction (sexually, emotionally, etc.) she feels she has the choice of two genders.

So I stopped worrying that my dick couldn't satisfy her, and started feeling better that I was the one out of many that she chose. I also expressed my worries to her and she convinced me that being bisexual didn't mean that she was going to 'run off' with a woman, or that she thought 'eating isn't cheating'. It meant nothing more than if she were straight - she had the potential to date many different people, but she chose me (and I chose her).

Anyway, after my lengthy story, my point is that being bisexual doesn't mean she's automatically going to do a threesome, cheat on you with a woman, prefer women to you, or anything like that. Just as your potential dating group is women, hers is people.

Hmm... and since she said she was, but then said she was kidding, I'd say she might be. I don't think you should try and 'help her through this' or convince her to come out or anything, just enjoy your girlfriend for who she is and if lesbian porn gets her going, then that's great!

Last edited by Rlyss; 09-29-2004 at 05:29 PM..
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