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I prefer stimulation of my cervix. Whe he tickles my cervix, I nearly jump out of my skin with pleasure. And the orgasms are amazing -- like riding a rollercoaster, only every turn is better and bigger!
As for the oral sex. Do you give it? Then you deserve to receive it. He may be afraid of the taste or the fluids. After fingering yourself, lovingly rub your finger on his lips. If he likes that, encourage him to suck on them. Pretty soon (we hope!) he'll get over his fear.
Bravo to you for maturbating in front of him. I was 41 before I'd do that with anyone. The results are amazing. Of course, part of it is having the right lover.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.
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