ratbastid

I don't have much to say about her and the friend. I will say this: I don't buy your claim of 120% trust. You protest too much, my friend. I know it doesn't look very good to be distrustful of your partner, but denying your jealousy (actually I see you copped to it in a later post; good for you!) won't serve any valuable purpose here. Part of you is worried something might happen! And that's a natural worry! You've concocted a rape scenerio out of thin air to rationalize your very normal worry.

Now: "Marriage is all about trust", right? So, if you don't trust her completely, is your marriage in trouble? Of course not! Don't be silly. You've just got something to work out, is all. EVERY marriage has stuff to work out at all times. There's totally nothing wrong here.