Are you a virgin? I had the same problems when I was a virgin - performance anxiety would cause my hard-on to disappear during crunch-time (I was dating someone who had previously dated the town stud and before we went out she had mentioned a few times that he was dynamite in bed, which didn't help). In that instance, alcohol actually helped and when I eventually lost my virginity it was one of the best sex sessions I've ever had.
What you really need to do is relax and stop worrying about it, but that is far easier said than done - I know, I've been there. And that's where the alcohol helped me.
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