I look at it from a different perspective. I see nothing of how you are where you are. I only see now and believe that actions taken now can shape the future.
Tell your daughter that you love her every time you see her. Even before you have a chance to disagree on anything. Let her know that you only want the best for her.
You can pick your friends, not your family. You now have an unofficial son-in-law. You can choose to keep him at a distance (and your daughter at this time) or switch up and get to know him, mentor him and maybe mold him into a respectable father. If he is from a less than desirable family lifestyle, maybe he just needs a boost up. Show him how you live and see if he can manage to change his life focus.
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Back button again, I must be getting old.
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