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maleficent · 09-28-2004, 06:30 PM

Are you ever not in the mood when she initiates sex? She's putting herself out there and you could say no, but wouldn't be rejecting her (Saying no could happen...) If you initiate sex, and if by some chance she says she's not in the mood -- she's not rejecting you at all.

Maybe she does want you to initiate sex, if I were her, I'd probably be tired of initiating it all the time... I'd love it for him to come home and suprise me...

You both have full schedules, why not dump the kids somewhere else (grandparents, uncle, neighbor) and have an actual date-- go out and have some fun with yourselves...

09-28-2004, 06:30 PM	#3 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	Are you ever not in the mood when she initiates sex? She's putting herself out there and you could say no, but wouldn't be rejecting her (Saying no could happen...) If you initiate sex, and if by some chance she says she's not in the mood -- she's not rejecting you at all. Maybe she does want you to initiate sex, if I were her, I'd probably be tired of initiating it all the time... I'd love it for him to come home and suprise me... You both have full schedules, why not dump the kids somewhere else (grandparents, uncle, neighbor) and have an actual date-- go out and have some fun with yourselves... __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less. Last edited by maleficent; 09-28-2004 at 07:26 PM..