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Originally Posted by legolas
either you trust her or you don't. that's the bottom line. if you don't trust her then the relationship is lost anyways.
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The world isn't black and white. You can partially trust, or believe she means what she says but that something doesn't add up -- but she may not be consciously aware herself. There are lots of shades of gray.
Something smells funny about this to me. Lurkette is obviously right that you should explain your fears to her. But in the end, if she wants to go, you have to hope for the best. Trust yourself -- if something happens, you will figure it out.
The reality is that the best you can do is communicate your fears and see what happens. There are no guarantees.
