Hmmm... in my personal relationship this would be a no go- for either one of us. I think you need to really express your feelings to her and if she won't figure out a compromise then you need to start asking yourself why she's so adament? I liked the previous poster's suggestion: why not have him come stay with you?
Also, the way you made it sound was they haven't really kept in contact that much until they just saw each other recently. To me that seems a little less like an 'old friend' and more like trying to renew something they had.
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Thought for the day: Men are like fine wine. They start out as grapes, and it's up to the women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
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