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Hey uh... hasn't she lived with her mother for 11 of her 16 years on this planet?
I really don't want to be rude, but I have to tell you the first thing that came to my mind, as a bastard child, was:
"Oh, now you want to chime in. Well fuck you buddy."
You're not really a "father", you're more of a sperm donor and a check-writer.
I also don't think it's very manly of you to use some puritanical American laws to seriously damage some guys family & future, because he was born too soon.
My girlfriend is 4 yrs younger than I am and we've been together for 6 years, I'm 25, you do the math, I guess I'm REALLY lucky her dad isn't such a prick.
BTW, and this is just opinion, but isn't a father sticking his nose so far into his daughter's bedroom life, a little.... perverted, creepy, gross?
Not to mention your stubborness isn't gonna change anything for the positive. It will however multiply any negative feelings toward you. Consequently, fucking you out of the joy of being a grandparent.
Is your point of view THAT important?
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