Eric640

That's kinda the vibe I get. She's being stupid and eventually shes going to realise it. The question is weather she will be able to admit shes wrong or just go on and keep being stupid.

1) She doesn't tell you where she goes.

2) She leaves you confused and dumps all the responsibilities into your hands like she doesn't care. (How motherly...)

3) She admits to being attracted to other guys she comes into contact with on a daily basis. Atleast she admits it, but that sends mixed signals. She says it casually, almost as if she doesn't care about your reaction to it. She doesn't say it in an I've been bad and want to tell you kind of way.

4) She's in fantasy land. A mother running off to party with her friends while leaving her husband at home. Very juvenile behavior.

5) She doesn't want to fix it. In 6 months she will realise how dumb shes being, but right now, she's blind.


It all comes down to this. Either she's having some sort of midlife crisis and will get over it, or she's done with you and has decided to dump all the responsibility in your arms and run off in search of fun like shes 16.

Give it some time. Tell her you have a problem with how she's acting. See a marrige counselor.

If she won't cooperate or be more reasonable after you've taken some reasonable and compromising steps (I mean you've already gone out of your way to accomodate her behavior)... let the courts make her responsible for her children and go find someone who cares about you.