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I don't think anybody's mentioned the possinility that the wife might be going there with honorable intentions, staying with her female friend, really not intending to cheat at all. But maybe the guy has intentions to make a move on your wife and she doesn't realize it.
I'm not saying this will happen, but while reading this thread this was going through my mind:
How is she going to feel when (if) she goes there trusting him, after you've asked her not to, and he then makes a move on her? She's not going to trust him anymore, she's going to be totally dismayed and it'll be a huge shock to her to think that she trusted him to be an honorable man, but he's just a sleaze. She's going to have to come back to you and she'll be so ashamed and humiliated to think that you were right and that she should never have gone. It'll turn many things around. If she comes back upset she might not tell you why, because she'll be too ashamed that he tried to move in on her.
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