I have to agree with these guys, My wife likes to say she stays friends with all her ex's but I finally had to help relize that they were only friends because they still want to be with her. Out of all of them only one of them still talks with her. They only talk on the phone but it still bugs me a bit. He has came out and told her that he is still very interested in her. I trust her but I agree with CrossEyedLove, There is only so far you can let this go without it turning into a really bad thing. Talking on the phone or seeing him in public while he is in town is fine. Going out of town to visit him without any way of you knowing one way or the other is wrong of her to ask of you as her husband.
My wife knows this and will not see him, only talk on the phone. She also knows that I will reverse the roles to prove a point so she stays out of situations she does not want me in.
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