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Originally Posted by tooth
My 2 cents...
You pretty much have to let her go, unless you don't mind looking insecure and jealous. It sucks, but you have to take the high road.
But shame on her for even putting you in this situation. If she loves and respects you, she should never willingly put herself into a postion where you have to decide to trust her or not.
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I basically agree with both parts of this. You don't have much choice but to trust her, but her behavior seems odd to me and is setting off warning bells. That
doesn't mean anything untoward will happen, just that if she loved you she wouldn't put you in the position of having to trust her to visit an old SO.
My $0.02, fwiw.