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Well I just have to put my thoughts in to this...
I went thru two HORRIBLE divorces with my dad and my "mother" and my dad and his Ex wife. None the less it MESSES with the kids no matter what. So maybe bring the kids in to this and try to make her realize that IF a divorce does happen it wouldn't be a good thing for the kids. Im not saying USE them, just make her realize.
With the drinking, and "partying" she NEEDS to realize that booze wont make it all go away, hell it will probably make it worse. Your in the position that you just have to try to make her realize that you love her and she needs to become happy again. I think shes REALLY overwhelmed also. How old are the kids? Could you just work and pay all the bills? Could she wuit school for a while? Maybe just taking care of herself, and the kids would help some. I know that life is hard and overwhelming, most people can take it but some cant.....
Good luck for you and the kids and I hope the Wife comes around....
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