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I cannot input much here as this would be a difficult situation for anyone to deal with, but you keep stating this above as if your daughter was forced into having intercourse with this youg man, which from the sounds of things was not at all the case, but instead a willing event between two paricipants. Maybe to sit back and re-think the whole pressing of the charges for that and MAYBE, MAYBE I say you will have a little more success in getting your daughter to understand what is going on and why you are trying to get him to pay up for the kid if it in fact is his.
From what I am reading you seem to be more upset by this guy being a "loser" if you will by your description of him in the court case scenario above....white undershirt to his knees speaks no english etc. You are upset with a guy who got your daughter pregnant and may not be willing to help support what he helped create, but I think you saw a way to get more "even" by using the whole age thing as well, when all you wanted was your daughter and this guy to be responsible for their actions.
If any of this is unclear or rambling I aplogize like I said above it is hard for me to relate just respond to what I get from the one sided story above, not to mention I am only 28 and have no kids of my own (unless you count my 2 dogs ) :/
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Spank you very much
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