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cmc · 09-25-2004, 09:22 AM

A few questions you've got to ask yourself is --

* Do I want to partner with someone is on the prowl while in a committed relationship with me ? ( she gave her # out while on a road trip ... ? - is there a good reason you guys weren't 'road tripping' together ?

* Do I want to be with someone who either doesn't have the skills or the willingess to use her communication skills with me to clearly and reasonably address the issues & problems in our relationship ?

* Do I want to partner with someone who continues to use 'flight & flight' responses to problems - as opposed to using reason, logic & love to solve problems in our parternship ?

* How would I feel if I had a partner who trusted me completely, LOVED to peacefully, work out problems, and INSISTED that we take Road Trips TOGETHER !

* What is going on within me that finds a girl like this ( old GF) attractive ?

* What if I knew, Knew, KNEW that I could share EVERYTHING with my partner and celebrate life together ?

You know you DESERVE to have a great partner, and that means someone who is fun, pretty, happy, self sufficient, expressive, sexy, dedicated, loving and who, most of all, WANTS to be with YOU !

Good luck -- this may be a HUGE break for you dude !
Better now, than 5 years, 10 years, 20 years from now !

Go for the gold, it's waiting for you !

09-25-2004, 09:22 AM	#23 (permalink)
cmc Crazy Location: usa	A few questions you've got to ask yourself is -- * Do I want to partner with someone is on the prowl while in a committed relationship with me ? ( she gave her # out while on a road trip ... ? - is there a good reason you guys weren't 'road tripping' together ? * Do I want to be with someone who either doesn't have the skills or the willingess to use her communication skills with me to clearly and reasonably address the issues & problems in our relationship ? * Do I want to partner with someone who continues to use 'flight & flight' responses to problems - as opposed to using reason, logic & love to solve problems in our parternship ? * How would I feel if I had a partner who trusted me completely, LOVED to peacefully, work out problems, and INSISTED that we take Road Trips TOGETHER ! * What is going on within me that finds a girl like this ( old GF) attractive ? * What if I knew, Knew, KNEW that I could share EVERYTHING with my partner and celebrate life together ? You know you DESERVE to have a great partner, and that means someone who is fun, pretty, happy, self sufficient, expressive, sexy, dedicated, loving and who, most of all, WANTS to be with YOU ! Good luck -- this may be a HUGE break for you dude ! Better now, than 5 years, 10 years, 20 years from now ! Go for the gold, it's waiting for you ! Last edited by cmc; 09-25-2004 at 09:25 AM..