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Originally Posted by greyeyes
OK guys, enough ragging on xim, it's not doing anyone any good. Especially xim.
But back to the subject at hand. Last night she came over and spent the night and we did have that heart to heart like exizldelfuego was talking about in his post. I more or less told her that I was pretty interested in her and that I would like to start some sort of committment (not in so many words though). Her reply was that she had just gotten out of a relationship around the beginning of augest and it wasn't easy for her to transfer emotions especially since she really cared about this other guy (who in my opinion was a complete looser, but hell I only got her side in it all). I'm not positive if I got completely rejected or if she just needs a little more time (she did afterall just get her stuff from his place last wednesday, she also used the word closure so I'm guessing she's not completely over him but I dont know). Any comments on this?
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I have a comment. When I started seeing my current boyfriend I was not over my ex. It really took me a while to get past everything that had happened and move on, even though I was spending all my time with the new (current) boyfriend and enjoying it very much. It's not that I didn't want to be with him, but it took a little time for me to recover from the past. He was patient and just waited it out, and now we've been together 5 1/2 years and have a much better relationship than I ever had with the last guy. I guess he saw the potential there for something really good and just wasn't going to give up that easy. The result has really been that his patience showed me how much he wanted to be with me. Every once in a while he likes to mention the fact that it took at least six months before I would acknowledge that I was, in fact, his "girlfriend."
