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Ok, I probably should have expounded on our relationship that I have with this girl. I met her in one of my classes about a month ago. Just last week (eight days ago I think) I asked her if she wanted to go and hang out, perhaps do something fun then next day. She agreed pretty redily. The next day, Hurricane Ivan came through the city though it was mostly high winds and rain, When we met up at school she didn't think it was a good idea to drive anywhere in those conditions. So I offered to walk her to my place because it was closer than her's and then drive her home from there. She agreed (insert wet, not cold, windy scene with both of us getting completely soaked, good times). Well, the entire way home we just clicked really well. Back at my place we did the drying off thing and I made some hot tea. from there we chilled for about three hours just talking and shit (like I said we clicked really well). When it got dark someone (I dont remember who) made the comment that I should take her home, yet she suggested that I come over and watch a Kung Fu movie at her place (I dont think I've stated how cool this girl is yet;just and example: yesterday she bought the new star wars triligy that just came out and was more excited than I was about getting it, but back to the story). We went, watched the movie, had a great time, and I left around eleven thirty. Since then I have spoken to her either on the phone or in person for a min of one hour every day.
We have spent time in the park (though, half the time was spent studying, or her helping me with Econ because I suck at it).
The most recent time we have spent hardcore time with each other was on monday evening. We watched the cowboy bebop movie (yeah I own it, you gotta problem wid dat??) and ended up having a few drinks. Well to make a great story short we ended up cuddleing and kissing all night (she instigated the kissing, I was really trying to hold off on that one but she knew what she wanted and I had no problem with that) and her spending the night while we were both constantly either complementing each other or just talking about stuff went to sleep around five thrity to six (I'm not too sure of the accuracy of the time). So I guess I'm past the "dating period" (which I would rather call hanging out) but I have hung out with many girls and honestly it usually ends up with me getting them in the sack on the second or third day then it lasts for about two weeks MAX and I cut it off because they bore me (that's what happens when you go for looks over brains and chemestry). I DO NOT want this to happen!! And like I said in my first post I really want to try the girlfriend thing (especially with her). Now I guess my question is: where do I go from here to obtain that? I've hung out with her for about a week now but I really dont want to rush things (like I tend to do) because they sour so quickly. Were shooting for long term here baby!! And thanks for your quick responses everybody I'm really impressed as to how many people posted since last night alone.
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I'm kind of jealous of the life I'm supposedly leading.
- Zach Braff
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