From experience, I think you ned to cut down on your "busy" activities. I always have lots on the go but I find that the less time I can spend with my boyfriend, the more niggly we get and start stupid arguments. I don't know what your activities are, but either way, you need to think what's more important to you, your relationship with this girl, or all these other things that are keeping you so busy that you have little or no time for her. You have to make time for relationships too, otherwise if you just don't have time for one, just accept this fact and let your girlfriend move on to someone who will make time for her. Sorry if it sounds harsh but it's not fair on either of you. Maybe she needs to hear the same thing?
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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