saut, tough to say exactly, but a quick question: How long has the relationship been on the down-turn? Based on a few things you said, I think y'all might be burnt out with each other. You've been together for a while, so you're past puppy love, and you're on the phone for a couple of hours every night? You're both really busy, and then you've got the exhausting two hour marathon conversation to go through? Before you pull the carpet out of this thing, check out the signal your gf gave you - take a break for a day - and the fact that everything was hunky-dorry for a week. I may be off target here, but in my experience in the past (18 was a while ago...) when I was in relationships that had those characteristics, you might find you're smothering an otherwise healthy relationship. I'm not saying it's necessarily a good idea to see other people or any of that jazz; but you might try a fifteen minute conversation most days, and a couple of dates during the week.
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