I've had a similar thing happen to me with my ex once. You see, she used to like to wear these blouses that were pretty much crop-tops with straps, only they had two crossing pieces of fabric to conceal the breasts. My ex's breasts aren't small, but they aren't particularily big, either, so these all it took was a quick downward glance for someone to get a glimpse of some nip. Two 4th of July's ago, we went to this big get-together in Torrance, and when she and I were laying down for nearly an hour, I finally noticed that one of those pieces of fabric moved and her breast was exposed to everyone there!
I know this sounds controlling, but out of respect for myself (I didn't want my girlfriend flashing everyone whenever she went into public), I asked her to please not wear blouses like that unless she was sure they're properly secured. On one of the many occasions that we were fighting, she "went out with her friends" (in quotes because she is a habitual liar) to the pier, and when she finally came back to reconcile things with me, I saw that she was in one of those tops again (she wore it because we were fighting), and sure enough, it wasn't secure at all. I expressed my concern regarding the issue, and she asked, "What is it you hate so much about these tops?" and I responded with, "Honey, your breasts don't fill those tops properly and..." She then gave me a menacing look and said, "That's the meanest thing you've ever said to me!"
Given the fact that she and I had just gone through one of many split 'n' make-ups, which included her "retaliating" against me by hanging out with another guy at the pier, and given her insecurities, things didn't go too well.
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