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Originally Posted by Prince
My advice? Talk to a lawyer before she does. Prepare, get ready, gather your ammo. Seriously, it's not funny when it comes right down to it, you better be prepared. Love is wonderful, marriage is lovely, but divorce oftentimes means war. And based on what you've told us so far, I wouldn't trust the children in her care. You or the children do not seem to be her highest priorities right now. Which brings her maturity into question, in my opinion.
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Agreed. You sound like you want to try to save it--good, I agree with the counselor route. But be prepared for the worst: from what we've read here, it doesnt sound good. Sorry man...
And don't kid yourself if things end up not working. Try stepping out of your shoes and looking at it from the outside. If it isnt going to work, don't continually try to save it. It sounds like she's already had plenty of chances, dont waste your time giving her tons more.