I guess I'm one of those rare women who can say that it isn't my favorite thing. A lot of the reasons have been mentioned here - having guys insist on doing it when I didn't really want them to, having dull and boring times with it, and having guys with little or no technique. Or at least technique that didn't work for me, since I might need something a little different than most. It can be a weird and lonely feeling if you're not really into it, since he's down there, practically invisible, and sometimes you want to feel a little more connected than that. Another reason - and I don't want to sound like a prude here, because I'm not - is the messiness of it sometimes. I don't necessarily enjoy the feeling of being awash in someone's saliva...I guess we're back to technique here. A big thing with me is I generally don't have orgasms with anything other than manual stimulation, so oral sex doesn't get me off. Or at least it didn't until my current boyfriend, the first and only person to bring me to orgasm orally. Funny coincidence, I am liking it more than ever before.
