my personal suggestion? tough to say without all the details, etc; however, unless she's done things that really would make you not like her as a friend, there's no reason to burn the bridge on the relationship. At the same time, I wouldn't suggest trying to retain the level of intimacy you previously had. If she's demonstrating that she's not interested in that level of relationship, then she has to be prepared to understand that there are certain consequences - it's not that you're being a dickhead, but at the same time you can't leave yourself open and emotionally vulnerable to someone who is giving strong indications that they might not be there for you. Therefore, I would treat it like you would a friend - if she wants to get together and it works for your schedule and it's something you want to do, I'd suggest hanging out with her. If it's not a good time, then take a raincheck. There's really no reason to let her (or anyone) get you any madder than you can manage.
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