B>10) Please define what "open marriage" means to you in a personal sense.</b>
Wow. Well, one of the things it means is that (as I said above), marriage is an ongoing creation rather than a set of rules to stick to. It's also an opportunity to grow and deal with the pettiness and jealousness, the baser end of our natures. lurkette and I (and the couple we're playing with) have become vastly stronger human beings out of that opportunity. It means I have three people on this planet with whom I'm as intimate as it's possible for a person to be, rather than just one.[/QUOTE]
Wow - thats a great answer! I've never quite looked at it that way to be honest. It makes sense of course - but that does show a lot of trust and growth to be with another couple. Thanks for the thought provoking!
