ultimateending

well im new here and im not too sure on how to go about this so im just going to lay it all out.

okay, well this has been going on for about a month now. I moved down here in july and my ex moved down in aug. Shes in college now and seeemd to have chose this one because i was comming down here. Now we did not see eachother that month while i was down here and she was back home. A few weeks on being down here i went to visit her at college. (Charely kept me away for a week or two). Earlier that week she wanted a "break" on our relationship of a year. So i was a bit leary and decided i had to go see her its been too long.

We saw eachother and things were great. she stayed with me for the weekend and i brought her back. The next day her "freinds" wont talk to her as what they call a joke. the next week we got hit by frances. she was susposed to come visit and stay during this huricane but wound up not for a few exuses she made up. She stayed with the two guys she hangs out ALL the time with at college.

She didnt even call me to see how things were and didnt asnwer her fone when i called her. So im getting a bit worried. i find out that shes got a few excuses that seem legit. So i turn my face on this one. And let her have the break. She disapears the next weekend with the guys again. She comes back and im furious because she wont even talk to me around these guys. So im starting to have second thoughts about what shes doing during this break.

So we get into a 5 hour discussion on our relationship and we wind up breaking up becuase she needs time to find herself and it had nothing to do with the guy, although she did mention she liked and i told her i wouldnt speak to her if she broke up with me for him. (yeah it seems childish but at the time i was pissed) I was mad but i know how hard starting new someplace since i was going through the same thing. I just hoped she would make more freinds other than these two guys.

So some time later i find this new girl at my school n we start hanging out. It felt so good after all that time of waiting for my ex and every thing. Now i find out that my ex is dating this guy she met at college, the same one that she admitted liking during our break up. So now im stuck, trying with this new girl and its slow, compared to what i had. Last night my ex n i talked about what we had. A few days after the breakup we were trying to get our freindship back intact. She claims were working on it but the part that really bugged me last night was when we turned the conversation back to how it used to be and how we talked. (we had a very intimate relationship btw. we would talk about anything and do anything). She started to defend her relationship with the guy and refuse talking like that. And yes she does have a flirty personality but she wouldnt give a response when i asked her if she even defended our relationship when she started talking to these guys.

Now i dont know what to do and i look to you for some advice. I mean she says she likes me and this guy. I wouldnt dare go back with her unless she really changes her ways, i cant even let my self trust her with the smallest things becuase i dont know what shell do next. I started something with this new girl but its very slow. My ex doesnt know about her and im not sure how that would work. I have a feeling it may make her spiteful as seeing that she doesnt seem to realize what is going on. The ex wants a freindship but we always fight and it winds up being her lack of being there or her relationship with this guy.

Theres more details but i dont want to make this post long. Yes her freinds have tried talking to her and most have stopped bothering with her. I apologize for this being so long but if you need more please let me know.
thank you all in advance