if you dont have anything like this...
One of the best presents I ever got was the "hope" chest with matching quilt rack that my father made just for me and he designed it to go with my existing furniture.
http://www.smokymountainwoodworks.com/Chests.php
this site says they design and do custom work on those kinds of things
it says they also do beds...a custom desgined bed would be great and definately different...hmmm I need to get somebody to put a bug in Dave's ear about that since we cant find the kind of 4 poster we want ahahahaha