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Originally Posted by maleficent
This is an incredibly sad story.
Where are the children, and how are they doing? Who's taking care of them?
A break from each other probably wouldn't be a bad idea, where she can get her head together, and you can as well and decide what you want, for each other. The children are so important, but they deserve parents who are happy, not parents who are miserable.
You got married under non-ideal circumstances... If you want this to work, because you truly do love her (her - the person, not the mother of your children) then get into counseling - talk out your problems and decide where you want to go...
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Counsiling is on the top of our list, but unfortunatly the only ones we know of that we could afford (free) at at churches, and there is nothing wrong with that, but I don't want to hear about our marrige won't work if we are not ideal christians, cause I know there are alot of unbelievers that have great marriages. Plus I want someone who studied this kind of thing in school, not just some assistant pastor with nothing else to do.
As for the kids, well they are not really involved. I don't think that they can tell one way or another being as young as they are, but also cause we are not always at each others throats, my friends had no idea that we were having problems and I think they are a bit more observent.
No matter what happens between us the kids will always be taken care of.