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Originally Posted by Flyguy
Man, read your last post again, preferably when sober so you can see what you're actually saying!!
She's talking about how she has a thing for other guys and talking about how she keeps kissing on one guy when she goes out to party while you're at home being responsible taking care of the kids? (That alone by the way is reason enough for me to boot her out on her ass in my opinion) Don't you see how royally fucked up that is !?!?! She want's to party all the time, party all the time, party alllllll the timmeeeeee!! Seriously, I’d be considering throwing in the towel on this one and chalk it up to experience. Either that or its ultimatum time. She's not 21 anymore, she has two children, it time to grow the fuck up!!!!
Dude, don't kid yourself, you need to confront her on this and find out what the fuck she wants. If she want's out the let her the fuck out. I wouldn't put up with shit like this especially if there's two kids involved.
She just needs to grow up.
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Actually she is 21. That is part of the problem. I don't mind if she wants to go to bars, its just she is slacking in her responsibilities at home and I have to do extra.
She does need to grow up, but she has been so mature in the past, haveing to grow up fast when her mother died and her father went to jail. She has been an adult since she was 13 practicly. She has never had any real friends before and now that there are people giving her attention she never got in high school and she wants to do things that she never was able to do cause she had a kid at 18. I expected this, I really did, but now its worse then I thought.
I sat her down today and told her that she needs to get her priorities straight, or she is going to have to leave. I told her I deserve someone that loves me and likes me for who I am and enjoys spending time with me. I said that if she is not interested in trying to make things work then I am out. We will see if anything changes the next few days.