Woah Woah WOAH.... Serious red flags going up all over the place. Get counseling together, because you're both breaking your contract and trust with each other all over the place. Be prepared, counseling doesn't fix everything, and one person cannot repair a relationship if the other simply isn't interested. Be aware, she's NOT telling you everything. She PROBABLY doesn't want you at the bar, as it will cramp her "style". AND... if it's taller skinnier men that are an issue, losing weight on your part won't fix ANYTHING, because she has CHOSEN not to be in love with you.
Everthing that happens is the result of a CHOICE. You may choose to ignore it, or to act in any number of ways. but either way, it's a choice.
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