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typically i'm attracted to girls who look something like me at first, but a relationship can only go so far on looks and physical attraction. my first girlfriend was absolutely gorgeous and i was physically attracted to her. it just so happens that she became my friend before anything else and we had a pretty healthy relationship before we ever started dating. thats the key. her being attractive was merely an incentive to our relationship (until it all blew up in my face, which will come in another post, i'm sure).
so, when it all comes down to it, physical attraction is what draws people to each other and its why you'll see me walking with a girlfriend (current) who looks like me. but if there's nothing further than that, enjoy it while it lasts because its not well founded enough to keep things going.
if you're physically attracted to someone, go deeper, but on the same token, there's nothing wrong with talking to someone of another race that you have the same interests as. you just might find that healthy base relationship that we're all looking for.
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