avhg1

I hate to say it, but you need to move on for your kids' sake! They should have a stable home with loving parents! Right now it sounds as though your wife is solely concentrating on herself. In turn, she is making you so upset that I'm sure you can't concentrate on the kids and give them the love they deserve!

I've been married for several years and we've had our ups and downs. Anytime that I feel like my love and attention is being wasted, I refocus it all on my boys. I end up spending more time with them and am much happier in the end. I think that a lot of times just being a joyful person will attract others to you. Those others could include your wife. Who knows, you could attract someone who appriciates you a lot more.