I'm against contacting her. I've gone through a similar situation and at first it was quite exciting. But it turned out we both we trying to relive something that simply could not be brought to life. In the end, we both realized the mistake we were making and tried to leave with the beautiful and exciting memories of old.
Do I think about her still? Sure. I'll always have something for that young gal who helped make me the person I am today. But I'm much more happy living in the now with my present lady than in the past with a memory.
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